Why is it hard to believe someone when they said that they are Virgins . Especially young girls around the age of 20 and higher. I found it crazy that nowadays that relationship is based around SEX. I mean it’s amazing and really enjoyable base on the stories that I’ve heard. I’m comfortable being the odds one Around others. I’ve been judged so many times when I say to people im a virgin. I get asked so many person questions as of why I am still single. It’s not like I haven’t got the opportunity to have it but I believe it’s something that should be done with someone you trust , love and respect. I don’t like to have any regrets in life, so I’m conscious of the reason why I don’t want to just have it. Believe it or not I’ve got to the point of no return, for some reason something always block me . Maybe it’s because of the promise I made to myself and God when I was 8 years old to stay a Virgin until I get married. Well looking back lol maybe it was a little presumptuous of me to make such a huge promise without fully understands. Fast forward to today I have no regrets .
I believe having inter courses with someone it’s something very special that you are sharing. It’s a beautiful thing to give someone a part of you . I can’t never understand why people keep having sex with multiple partners just like they don’t understand why I’m still a Virgin lol. Your body is a temple that should be treated with respect, I get you have hormones to take care of but at the same times do it with a little bit of respect.
I’m not a saint by no means I’ve done some things 🙈, but I’m taking my time before I go any further . One thing I do think it’s utterly disrespectful is when people ask you are you still a Virgin and Based on the answer they judge you. Just cause I’m different it doesn’t mean I’m less than you.
I’ve learned all my life that my body is MY TEMPLE that I should respect it , love it, and take care of it . For me and for some as well not having sex to just having sex it’s a way to respect their bodies. I wish sometimes I could go experience a one night stand lol but I do know I’ll be Ashamed of myself for the rest of my life( it’s just not my style)!
If you love someone and you wants that deep connection with them go for it. If you feel like their your forever, and it’s crucial that you connected as one with the person go for it. I just don’t think you should give your virginity away because of peer pressure, know when you ready to do so. I’m pretty sure being a virgin doesn’t make you less cool than others. I do think people need to learn to respect each others choices.
My choice is to wait until I’m ready and also to feel that spiritually I won’t be disappointed in myself. I also want a person that I’ll never regrets no matters what happens after .. Like I may or may not wait until marriage honestly (I do feel in my guts that I should wait ).. Those things counts for me , I don’t know for you but found things that makes you comfortable and make sure whoever you with make you feel okay with your choice not pressured. I do hope and pray that whoever I end up with in the future respect my choice and will love me enough to be accepting towards my view and belief. Just an FYI being a VIRGIN doesn’t make you a saint lol.
To the guys who makes a girl feel less than a woman for being a Virgin you are not a real man in my book. It goes the same for my girls too who think a man is not normal for being a Virgin in their young adult life.
•You are who you are. And should never apologies for it. Respect yourself enough to know what IS you want for yourself•
Love and honor yourself .Bisous 💋
Lady Sergine 🌹💋