Have you ever been so disappointed in someone that you trusted with all of your life. As humans we forgot that we are humans, and we’re bound to make mistakes that will either hurt people or you in the long run.. I am the The Type of person, when someone disappoints me; I don’t see anything else past it.
But as I get a little more mature, I’m learning to change my point of views on how I see things. I’m not the forgiving type of person but I’ll try. People will disappoint you not because they don’t love you, maybe it’s the fact that they don’t know the right thing to do. I’ve found times where I put my all in certain people that I love and somehow they become my biggest disappointment. Does it hurt? Yes it does. Do I let it lead to the end of our relationships and end of my trust in the person? Maybe it depends on the person.
I’ve disappointed some people for sure; did I mean to? No but do I wish that I didn’t. Do I do better the next time oh YES! So why not accept them with their flaws just like I hope they will do for me.
Perfect example how like a couple months ago someone that I am close with disappointed me to the point I hated that person but I sat down and thought about it I was like WTF I can’t deal with this and I’m over the relationship; but I thought long and hard about it and came to realization that it’s not the end of the world whatever happens was meant to happen. Was it hurtful? Hell yea, just cause we are so close. Am I ok with how things turnout to be YES! My disappointment is still there.
Life is full of disappointment, people you love or relationships that you are in. You just have to learn to accept it. It’s unfortunate that you get disappointed by people or things but unfortunately this thing call life is so uncertain.
Lady Sergine 🌹💋