Why do we have to be ok with changes? I’m always going through changes and I HATE change. Over the last few days I’ve received some good news that’s two people I’m close too are getting Married and pregnant. Y’all as happy as I was; I got so sad that I cried. The reason being that I cry it’s because those people I’ve known them all of my life(they are the sisters I didn’t have) . We are so close that we no longer introduce each other as friends. I’m soooo proud of them you guys. But it seems as if everyone is settling down in all area of their lives and I’m just there lol. I am as well but not how I thought I would be by now 😭😂. One of my sisters and I had so many plans together before settling down but it seems that everything is soooo far away now. We had so many trips getting set up for us to go with our crew. You know it’s funny how people always say we make plans and GOD laugh. It’s really true though, that’s what He does.
One of the girls and I have been friends for 16 years!!! Meaning we have achieved everything with each other like at the moment I’m feeling left behind but I’m HAPPY for her. I just feel now I have to accept more in our groups. First I had to be open to us bringing significant others into our group and now I have to put in mind it’s a permanent thing while I’m still getting used to the relationship. But goddamn it, I honestly don’t feel ready for those changes but my Mom talked to me about accepting that at this moment in our lives it’s going to be different as we are growing 😭😭. It’s overwhelming to begin with and so little time to get used to it.
Changes are MOST OF THE TIME great but HARD to accept. I adapt easy with any new situation, I dunno for some reasons it’s hard to do so😭 when it comes to my friend’s situations. I cried like a babe.
Moral of the story is that you will certainly make WONDERFUL plans with the BFFS, there’s an 70 percent chances of things not going as planned. Just cause we grow everyday, our views changes as time goes by and just cause Y’all are on a different road it doesn’t mean the FRIENSHIP/ RELATIONSHIP is over. Things just have to be different. Remember the LOVE will always be there. I’m open to the changes that I know are coming. I’m just not okay with surprises lol. But in all honesty ,lovebugs, I’m excited to be on the journey with them. I know I’m not going to understand certain things but I’m happy to support them through it all. I am honestly looking forward to see how all of us as friends, cousins, sisters going to adapt into our new roles. We all have so much going on.
•CHANGES are part of life we have to learn to accept them and trust it’s gonna be alright •