An open letter,
To everyone that I’ve grown apart with, I’m sending you this letter to let you know that I still love you. I might not talk to you as much as I used to anymore, but know that I miss you so much and I’m rooting for you from afar. From time to time I do check on your social media to see how you’ve been living life lol. I don’t have any hard feeling, I just feel just like a proud old friend. I certainly don’t have the energy to be jealous of anyone.
I’m sorry that I’ve let a misunderstanding get in our way when I could have fixed it. I’m pretty sure it was my time that was up in your life. I know that I played a huge part playing in us growing apart. I guess some things are beyond our controls no matter how much we might try. It’s the natural process that people do go through in life, sometimes they grow apart. I know I stop stopped reaching out
You may not fully get it why we grew apart. To be honest, I don’t either. What I believe happened is that we grew up and knew it was the end of an era for us without fully admitting it, because we were scared of being right. As we grow older I think we start having different beliefs, values, and some things became more important than they were back then. So we stopped having the same interests.
I also think that we have let so many things go by without us talking about it. So much was piled up that we didn’t have the energy to fix, that also made us grow apart. I’ve forgiven you for everything and you feel the same about me. If we ever speak again, whether to be friends or catch up, maybe we’ll have the opportunity to hatch all of these things that no longer matter. Sorry for letting people coming between us by what they were saying.
It’s never easy to grow apart from people that you’ve shared so many great things, laughter,tears, victories, losses, and above all MEMORIES . I know that family keep asking about each other but feel free to let them know that I’m doing fine and that we still love each other. At least I know I do.
I am a firm believer that everyone comes in your life to teach you a lesson or something. We’ve come at the end of our journey for each other . You’ll always have this special place in my heart forever & ever. What we’ve shared was SPECIAL, I’m totally grateful I’ve met you. Even though am hurt by everything that happened, I’m happy we didn’t have any huge fight, we’re could have said hurtful things. Who knows maybe in the future we could rekindle our friendship but for… For now I’m okay with how things are and from time to time we say hello to check on each other.
This was inspired by a friends going through the process of growing apart with certain people. True story we even grow apart from family members and that’s okay as well .. God works in mysterious way! So farewell to you old friends or family member that I’ve loved and still do. Thank you for teaching me so much in so little time..You’ll always have a special place in my heart. Hope that the new friends succeeds at being the good friend that I couldn’t be.
To all of you beautiful lovebugs it’s totally okay to grow apart with people even when it hurts. But like they say time “heals all wounds”. Cheer them from afar and keep sending them positive vibes! Believe me I know how it feels. You never want to lose someone you love ❤️.
Lady Segine 🌹💋
PS wrote this 2 months ago !