Why are we changing our value so we can feel cool? What’s wrong with going on a picnic or even taking me to see a good movie? It’s almost like nowadays men don’t try to know you at all, and young girls doesn’t believe in these simple things. Don’t get me wrong, material and superficial things are nice, but there are better things to life. I’m not even romantic or anything but I do think it’s nice when a man take you out for ice cream or just for a nice walk.
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I don’t understand why from the moment they start talking to you, men ask only you about your favorite sex position and things like that, instead of asking about your favorite book and what music you’re interested in. When I think back to how man used to ask a girl out on a date and I found that so beautiful. I think that’s one of the maby reasons I love “Dear John” & ” The notebook”. I think the stories were deeper than them just having a connection . It was more !
I think that we are scared to be seen as big romantic, and I don’t understand why. I’m not only expecting men to act in a more romantic way. I think it would be nice for women to do so as well.
If you love someone it’s okay to do nice things for them. For example, my mother’s favorite candy/ chocolate is Snickers, I always loved when my dad would come home after work and would bring one for my mom. It’s a sign of love and appreciation. He knows that his wife loves this, and so he would bring one every time he goes grocery shopping or he would go out of his way specially to get it for mommy. I thought it was so nice. Believe me when I say he wasn’t such a big romantic guy. But he remembered to show his love in little ways.
I believe in a nice picnic, camping, skydiving, going on dates or any crazy adventures that I can carry with me over a last time. I love flowers so I think I should received them, maybe not every day, but at least from time to time from someone who appreciates me. I know my worth so I expect to be treated as is. Materials things are not what make a relationship. Nothing irritates me more when I see these girls’ relationship goals on social media (well, they say “to each his own”.. I guess..) most of them are so superficials . I don’t want to be nobody’s trophy. Because I know for a fact after a certain time, they’ll go look for a better one. Maybe this is something to think about..
For all of you girls always complaining about how men acts, I do think it’s because of how you portrayed yourself ,granted they are some natural jackass but most of the time it’s your fault. My parents always tell me if you want to be treated with respect, you start by treating yourself with RESPECT!
Can you please ask me out correctly? Please do it the proper way! Yes I AM an old soul!! I love deep talks about life, love, God, anything that’s worth me thinking very deep. I believe in doing things a certain way. Please respect me enough not to come and tell me you want to fuck me because I’ll slap the shit out of you. See me for who I am, look deeper when I say deeper I mean pass my physics . Make sure I’m a good person instead of just seeing what I look like on the outside! My ass is a part of who I am, sure, but, my personality is actually bigger and better. Stop being superficial.
My question is what’s wrong with doing things the old fashioned way? I hate when I see girls or boys settling for less because their significant others doesn’t like to do certain things. Hmmm okay but what’s wrong with pleasing your partner? I know sex is an important part for most people but ain’t nothing wrong with doing things the old fashioned way!
Xoxo ,
Lady Sergine🌹💋
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